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SandeepDecember 07 Goals acheived are counted as successWell this blog is dedicated to one of my friend Nikhil Mathur, whom in recent times i have found it to be self motivator for the things that he did in his life. I tried to recall the moments in my life recently or in some time when i have lived for me. When I did what I want to? Without giving a cent what other things for the act that you do. There are always many aspects of what you do, sometimes or I say most of the time you do it because someone else will feel good. Well there are pros and corns of each and everything that you do in your life. Some of your act would be really pleasing you but not the others. Some of your goals will make you happy but not pleases others. I do feel strongly that one has to do what he feels to do and to make sure that his/her act should not be impacting others. It may be doing a sky diving to any thing in your life. You should be responsible of what you are doing. This person has got the guts to do that. In last six months he has been to his entire friends place just to see them and say Hi and to recall college and school days. Someone would be saying that he was passing that way or may be since he was there he came to meet me... but this reasons are really nonsense to be spoken. How many times you felt that you should go and see your friends? And you made an attempt also and attempt that really counts ... were you really success in your own thought willingness. I also meet many people who say I have lots of responsibility to take care and that’s why I don’t have time. C'mon don’t talk bullshit, have you said the same thing to meet your boyfriend/girlfriend ... no na then why this to be given as an excuse... c'mon have the courage to accept it. I remember around one year before this man came at my place to halt before he proceeds for the next place. Ohh sorry before i proceed further let me tell you he is the one who is really fascinated about mobile, radio, his car and train ( i guess his first love... which has now taken a distance). Okay so now going ahead he was on his own Maruti 800 car came from bangalore to pune and on chit chat he expressed his desire to travel from bangalore to Jaipur (2400KM) on car. To have a feeling he drove alone the complete 900kms from bangalore to pune. At that time he said he would like to travel all the way as that is his dream and he want to do it. Around two months before I remembered I got a call which was kind of just formality to let his all dear ones know that he is travelling once more from bangalore to pune and they should be aware of what he is doing. He framed things as if that all his friends and family agreed that he can come to Pune and from pune he will be taking a Driver... which anyway i was the point of contact and was put up as a responsibility to find a driver. He drove all the way to pune once more and as per his next resolution he made everyone feel that he can go along by stopping in mid at some other friends place meeting them and he dont need a driver. Since all friends knew instead of not supporting him they gave all the mental support he needed. He faced lot of problem while driving back to home in Jaipur but i can understand the feeling that would have emerged in his heart at that point of moment would have crossed or eased all the problems of the journey. Do you have a dream or desire to do? Where are you with those dreams? Are you living your life the way you want or you are one among the millions who are living the way as others want it? Put these questions to yourself and have sometime for yourselves. Live life for yourselves also and have a happy feeling in life. Have you set goal and achieved it where are you placed in your life. When is the last time you said to your parents that you love them? When is that to your family members and to or your hubby? Aren’t you running from your life just for some reason which you don’t know... can you start framing your life instead of going tangentially in some direction which even you don’t know. To share with all. I really care and love you all. You all have a special place in my life and you all are torch bearer for me in my goals setting.. See you all in my next space. Till then bye..shabba khair Crying gives energyI was thinking the forms to regain energy after you have been broken or hammered in your life. Some how I realized and felt that crying gives a lot of energy to fight back in life. Now this crying needs really someone to weep and feel like telling each and everything that your heart feels and all things should ponder down. It can be silly to the silliest thing in life he/she wants someone to hear them and respond positively at that time giving energy and support to him/her.
September 14 Trust, Faith and Believe ...all lostIt’s all about what kind of person you are. I have hardly seen people with the nature that I have or I should admit that I haven’t met a single person in my life who share the same thinking level that I carry with me. Here I am not talking of all good and bad qualities that are there in me. I am talking about one specific quality, to set something free or giving empowerment to others by having faith or trust in the other person. Well all the instances where I remember when ever I did this that is setting free to take decision of me believing on others, believe me the result is 100% they have taken the decision against me
 . It’s been hard to digest those moments as you don’t only loose trust, faith and believe that you have. But you also lose the confidence in the person whom you are with.
I some where read or heard that keep things free, if those belong to you it will return. I am not sure whether the person who has written this kind of proverb has ever got things when he set free things in his real life. It can be any of (relationship, faith, believe) all things are easily taken as granted by the people in this world you trust and show all your faith and believe. As I feel that’s there way of living life in this free world and would not have any consideration of the faith and believe that you have shown. As for them there immediate profit with this particular scenario is important and your faith and trust doesn’t mind them anything. Every other person in this world looks to me like is ready to take advantage of you that’s why they are associated with you. It is giving me another way to look this world that is selfish, introvert and be conservative. I also see the people who are advancing or in upper edge are people who are selfish, introvert and conservative. It would be very hard for me to adopt all the above three personality but if I don’t get into the adaption mode. Persons near by me will not stop snatching me and making me hurt and wounded all time. Writing this kind of blog will put my venom that’s getting generated in me and keep me kool but not too long as instead get into adaptability mode and understand the real world.
Its not that this is just written for the bitter experience that I have with my all loved ones in this world for last couple of years where I have been seeing world with this naked eyes and having experience in each stage with different attitude people but I do feel some where you would have also faced the same issues with one or the other people in this world. I know people who don’t care the faith and trust that you have shown to them, they also do show some faith and trust to some one else in this world and I hope that they don’t get the same bitter experience that they have given me as its very hard to digest and it takes hell lot of time to get out of the mental blockage that you get because of this.
I will be posting more of the blogs as and when I have good and better experience, so just drop by your comments on this to let me understand your thoughts on the same.
PS : Dont take it otherwise that every one who all knows me are being covered in this blog it is all those set of Introvert people who has been really kind to me to make me write this blog July 05 Work or No Work?Hey how is it going? whats going on dude? How is work at your end? ......... these are obvious question to any damn person working in this world when talking to any of his friend. Well 90% or more time i see people creeping about there work load or things happening at there work place. Well obvious thing is that one would like to show the frustation that is having with work and every one do the same. well its different for different people. Some people like me dont even tell any one whats going on and around, for me work is something like what we do whole life to live. It's like having ur meal and may be brushing ur teeth or having sex with ur partner. Its a need and why do one creep about the work. Its the place where you get all things to be in deed done to make other part of ur life going on. well i always says to any of my friend calling on to me or asking me whats going.. saying to them "nothing brother... just doing time pass. you tell me how are things at ur end". I know to speak this i have practiced my life bit like that free thinking and making no complains of what i am doing? and really i dont complain of what i am doing. So the good thing is that at particular those movement when i pick a call of my friend or reply some one on chat nothing goign on... i just give a relax to my mind for some seconds of the work that i was doing. A good way for me to relax as it gives lot of energy to carry work. For me work is something which makes me going. I love music as a falvor while working, so the other thing is that people around me think that i am not working just enjoying time.
Being a software professional people do expect me to sit in office chair for long time and be working. But my way of working is little different. I feel that all the time you being on keyboard will not give more productivity what matters is your thought process is ON or not. While you taking a walk or talking to friends, so that when you are on keyboard you dont need to think more and plot a frame ... it should be just going and belive me it has worked for me. I know what i want to deliver and is delivering that and at times more than what is needed well experts are always there to comment on this.
So guys out there... dont this work as a burden.. its not burden unless you start thinking it as a burden. Its yet a new challenge every day comes in a new package.. be practical and approach with a positive attitude and you will find that work is fun and there is nothing that you need to creep about this.
The time one attains this will start feeling good about what he was creeping and while he/she is working will start saying no work yaar :). Its total time pass. November 15 Am I a Looser?I was looking back to my life sitting calmly and recalling the events that has passed me, all the moment all the stages that i see what i did i had failure at the first step or to the Nth step. I dont remember anytime in my life I got success/Win straight away. I loose, Loose and Loose but suddely I started realising the wrong that I did every time on my Loose and corrected it and started not repeating the same mistake I see now to myself and feel that failure was just letting me getting better. I lost in all aspect of Life, be it Playground, studies or Love affair. On Playground I know every one want to be good at what he/she do and so do I. I have lots of energy and dreams running on when I start playing game and all the tacticals and dream come on my mind on how to do and what to do. But on realisitic things are very different. I want to be an hero but I am nnot. On Studies, might be people around me think that he has not studied much, belive me I have worked harder on some days but there are some leg pullers I will say i was not tactical to acheive good marks.I studied hell lot of thing other than what was needed I will say I was not directed to do what i should have done. I think I was among few of the fellow who hardly took any suppliments to fill the paper that shows i cant write more than what is needed. Love Affairs... well this is yet interesting part.. almost every one have in there life and so do I. Did I really love her... answer is yes... but once more all things are not under your control, sometime you become more smart and sometime time become more smart. Well lessons are there in this also but who dares to repeat the lesson. I am a looser but i will tell you i have all my lessons by hearted and i dont forget any of my lessons learned on my failures. I have moved ahead and I am slowly progressing with failures on its way. Nowadays its like, if I loose I see the other opportunity to win and I fight , fight till the end. I have started winning things but then also on those wins too I loose but I feel those looses are worth loosing as those have given me the pretty decent learnings and letting me prepared for big fights of life. I feel good now as I started realising that on Lossing things throughout my journey of life I have been adding new lessons and working hard on those lessons so that i dont loose because of those lesson.
I recall one of the good lesson which i feel now good on overcoming to that. I was young something around 14yr old, a passionate boy who want to play all the games and want to be good on everything.I Started playing Badminton on a club those days, club was open for every age group. Few Uncles used to come and play Badminton, there were players like me who dont used to go with there dads and were having less values on to the field. As every one would like to prefer there kid playing good game and as passion was ther me too was intereste and just only one court there , people want to remove me as i was not a good player. One odd day one man told me okay we will let you play if you do the service from end of the court to the other end of the court. I said okay, I tried ..but whats the use of that i was too thin at that time and no tactics I failed it didnt reached and I have to leave the court. Well practice was on and i practiced everything that i can learn from persons who used to play with me and learned lessons what ever by own. I will never say I won the matched single handedly but i got a positio into there team when they used to play, they call me to join the games. Yet another small win but enough for me to be happy on to the efforts that i reached. I pile and pile things by my own. some piles may not be worth but then also i feel it good as those are mine. Dream are on , efforts are on and I know many more lossing ways are waiting for me, I will go step by step and will pass all those and will certainly win one day. |
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